MEET ARIANA
It is easy to over-look the blessings that we enjoy day in and day out and focus our attention on the things that have become thorns in our flesh. Living in a world that is slowly becoming full of toxicity is overwhelming and this coupled with the desire for success can sometimes overshadow gratitude for the little things, that make us smile and leave lasting memories in our minds.
Incorporating a lifestyle of gratitude can bring tremendous benefits to our mental and emotional well-being and helping us build a joyful life for us and our loved ones. As the famous author William Arthur Ward once said, “Gratitude can transform common days into thanksgivings, turn routine jobs into joy, and change ordinary opportunities into blessings.”
The Science of Gratitude
Gratitude is more than just saying “thank you.” Science has shown that practicing gratitude regularly can rewire the brain, improve emotional well-being, and enhance overall life satisfaction. But how exactly does it work, and how can you incorporate it into your daily routine?
Research in psychology and neuroscience has revealed that gratitude activates the brain’s reward system, releasing dopamine and serotonin—neurotransmitters associated with happiness and well-being. MRI studies have shown that practicing gratitude strengthens neural pathways related to emotional regulation and positive thinking.
Gratitude may also benefit people with various medical and psychological challenges. For example, one study found that more grateful cardiac patients reported better sleep, less fatigue, and lower levels of cellular inflammation, and another found that heart failure patients who kept a gratitude journal for eight weeks were more grateful and had reduced signs of inflammation afterwards. Several studies have found that more grateful people experience less depression and are more resilient following traumatic events (Greater Good Science Center).
Deciphering the Act of Gratitude
The main attribute of gratitude is about being thankful and acknowledging the positive aspects of our lives. It is taking a turn from all pessimism and allowing yourself to find joy in minute things and taking note of the contributions of others which can mean a great deal and change lots of things. As famous researcher Dr. Robert Emmons states, “practicing gratitude can lead to higher levels of happiness and lower levels of stress, gratitude is the affirmation of goodness. It is recognizing that the sources of this goodness are outside of ourselves.”
Gratitude Around the World
People from various continents and cultures have ingrained the act of gratitude in their daily lives. In Japan, “Kansha” is a cultural practice which is strongly rooted in the lives of the citizens, the practice helps them to recognize and appreciate the efforts of their fellow country- men.
The Danish people also have “hygge” a practice which emphasizes the importance of appreciating the small things in life, like a warm cup of tea or a beautiful sunset. Hygge is about creating a cozy and comfortable atmosphere and finding joy in the present moment.
Gratitude in Action
A lot of people around the world actively support the practice of gratitude. Oprah Winfrey, often speaks about the life transforming power of gratitude. She once said, “be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.”
In order to nurture the lifestyle of gratitude, it is imperative that you begin your journey with simple practices such as keeping a gratitude journal. Write down things you are grateful for each day, it doesn’t have to be grand, the little things matter while starting.
Another way to practice gratitude is to express it to others. Whether it’s a heartfelt thank you note or a verbal expression of appreciation, acknowledging the contributions and kindness of others can strengthen relationships and spread positivity.
Embracing a lifestyle of gratitude is about shifting our focus from what we lack to what we have. It’s about finding joy in the present moment and acknowledging the goodness in our lives. As Melody Beattie beautifully puts it, “Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend.”
Essential Truths About Gratitude:
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Shifts Focus from Scarcity to Abundance
Gratitude helps reframe your perspective by directing attention to what you have rather than what you lack. This mindset shift fosters contentment, reduces envy, and enhances life satisfaction. -
Builds Emotional Resilience
Studies suggest that people who practice gratitude regularly experience lower levels of stress, anxiety, and depression. By recognizing positive aspects of life, you develop the ability to navigate challenges with a more optimistic outlook. -
Enhances Physical Health
Grateful individuals tend to engage in healthier behaviours, such as exercising, eating well, and getting quality sleep. Research also suggests that gratitude can reduce inflammation and strengthen the immune system. -
Improves Relationships
Expressing gratitude strengthens social bonds by increasing empathy and reducing toxic emotions like resentment. A simple “thank you” can deepen relationships and create stronger connections with others. -
Boosts Productivity and Mental Clarity
A grateful mindset reduces mental clutter, allowing for better focus and decision-making. Employees who feel appreciated perform better, and students who practice gratitude show improved academic performance.
Resources for Further Exploration
📚 Books:
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The Gratitude Diaries by Janice Kaplan
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Thanks! How Practicing Gratitude Can Make You Happier by Robert Emmons
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